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When a man gives oral sex to his female partner it is called
Cunnilingus. This form of oral sex, consist of stroking the
vaginal walls, clitoris, and the outer lips of the vagina using
your tongue to stimulate her to the point of orgasm. Giving
woman cunnilingus the right way is almost a guarantee to her
reaching orgasm. Women love oral sex, it is soft and sensual,
and it doesn't leave them feeling used and abused. Foreplay,
with cunnilingus, before intercourse makes the female feel more
special and important during sex. Plus her knowing that she has
already had an orgasm makes intercourse a little less trying for
the man to go ahead and get his. Better yet, giving each other
oral sex and both reaching orgasm leaves the rest of the night
to endless possibilities. So you want to learn to please your
partner in the department of cunnilingus, well follow these
simple steps to drive her wild in bed: •Start by not paying
attention to the clitoris at all. Don't just dive in and go to
town on the clitoris. Concentrate on the other areas of the
vagina first. •Kiss on the outer walls of the vagina, lavishly
lick on the vagina, insert your tongue into her vagina. •Now you
may work your way to the clitoris. At this stage, don't flick
the clitoris with your tongue, yet. Gently lick the clitoris
with the flat part of the tongue. A neat little trick is to draw
letters with your tongue around the clitoris. •You may want to
expose the vagina a little more to help find the clitoris a
little easier. This allows you to concentrate on the important
area of the vagina to help her reach her ultimate pleasures.
•Don't forget the rest of her body while stimulating her. Caress
the other erogenous zones with your hands, you may have to learn
multitasking her, and if you can't walk and chew gum at the same
time, this area may need a little work. •Now that she is just
gleaming with passion and ecstasy, now you can go in for the
kill. Attack the clitoris with gusto. Be deliberate, but be
gentle. Too much of a good thing, may not be that. You don't
want to over stimulate the clitoris. Maintain a slow and steady
pace, nibble and suck on the clitoris. Word of warning, don't
suck on the clitoris to hard. This is a sensitive organ and it
can be bruised, and become numb if roughed up to bad, so keep it
gentle and sensual. Communicate with your partner during
cunnilingus. If you are doing something and she likes it,
continue doing it, if she doesn't like it move on to something
else. Once you learn what your partner enjoys you can experiment
with new variations of her likes. The more you do what she likes
the more likely she is to reach orgasm. So the most useful and
effective technique is to do what she loves, cunnilingus is for
her so treat her to what she wants and loves. More than likely
she may return the favor.
About the author:
Jon Gammon is the author and webmaster at Sex Toy Alley, visit the
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